I typed "shaking finger" and was provided with gifs of men shaking their fingers so I added "woman" to the search terms, and the first offering was a man, then some cartoons. It was all silly stuff so I was going to look for a photo online to use instead. I didn't like those either so I was going to search by name.
With what woman would I illustrate my ideas? I thought of alive women and discarded that because I didn't want people to assume that I got my perhaps outrageous ideas from one of them.
So then I thought about women who are dead . . . inspirations . . . heroes. Who ARE my female heros, icons, influences? That turned out to be a tough question.
I have been thinking about this for hours.
The best I can do is Frida Kahlo, who is dead, and Maxine Waters, who is alive.
I have decided that really, I am my own hero.
I am leading me where I want to go, with all women on my mind, and all vulnerable folks who need defending.